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All products are independently selected by our editors. If you buy something, we may earn an affiliate commission. Flicking through anthropological texts yields a pathetic number of references to heterosexual anal sex. Is this because researchers assume that it's only for homosexual guys? Those researchers are missing a trick.

Full disclosure: I have had anal sex before, and I hated it. Clearly, I wasn't doing it right. You shouldn't just be a receptacle for someone else's good time. You deserve to come, too, and don't you forget it. It turns out you can — big time. No ifs, ands, or butts about it. Contrary to popular belief, orgasms from anal sex are totally possible even though there's not always any clitoral or vaginal stimulation involved.

An anal retentive person is a person who pays such attention to detail that it becomes an obsession and may be an annoyance to others. In Freudian psychology, the anal stage is said to follow the oral stage of infant or early-childhood development. This is a time when an infant's attention moves from oral stimulation to anal stimulation usually the bowels but occasionally the bladder , usually synchronous with learning to control their excretory functions—in other words, any form of child training and not specifically linked to toilet training. Freud posited that children who experience conflicts, in which libido energy is under-indulged during this period of time, and the child is perhaps too strongly chastised for toilet-training accidents, may develop "anal retentive" fixations or personality traits.

Which means you prooobably have a few questions. Using lube is a must during anal play, Joseph Frankhouse , M. Anal penetration without adequate lubrication can cause the tissue in your anus to tear.