When it comes to receiving oral sex, many women's default position is to get on their backs. And there's a lot to be said for that: You can relax and let your partner worry about what to do. But there's also a lot to be said for receiving oral on top, AKA face-sitting. For one thing, it puts you in complete control, and some women find that it also provides a better angle. If straddling your partner's face sounds intimidating, we get it. If you've never tried face-sitting, it can feel incredibly vulnerable.
It wasn't the first occasion on which the horny bitch had brought it up she's an Aries , those guys just don't let things go. And it wasn't the first time I'd replied with a full-body shiver and a, "Nooooo, it grims me out but I don't know why. I mean, I've done it loads of times in the past with male partners, and I enjoy being eaten out as much as the next guy. I'd also very happily have her ride my face to her little heart's content. But the thought of me being the sitter?
One fundamental truth about the language of sex is that some words and expressions are immediately, viscerally hot, while others are really not. As an expression, an act, and a concept, it is just hot. Why though? And what makes it such an instant turn-on?